Hi hi hi!
SPECIAL GUEST TODAY, YOU GUYS.
I recently ( actually it was kind of awhile ago.. sorry for the delay ) got the honor of being able to chat with.. my boyfriend LOL.
I talked to him about how we met plus some fun relationship questions!
How we met is pretty.. interesting.
Why? Glad you asked.
We met on bumble. That app, you know? Google it if you don’t know what it is ( lol ).
& because we are all about honesty here – sometimes it ‘bothered me’ ( if you will ) when people would respond weird after me telling them.
They just seemed kind of.. shocked?
You know – those reactions where they look at you like you’re an alien or some shit.
I had bumble for about.. 4 days. I think? Literally.
Some of my friends used it for a bit but I just never hopped on the bandwagon.
Until one day when I randomly was like ehhh f it, this seems pretty funny.
& just like that..
I met Bill ( BA ).
So if you don’t know about bumble – if you both “swiped right” and matched each other ( I think that’s what it’s called lol ), the girl has to talk first to start the conversation.
TALK ABOUT TAKING CONTROL, HUH?
Bill had no front teeth in his picture ( he was a hockey player ), and I am a dental hygienist.
SO. Naturally, I threw out a super lame message about fixing his front teeth.
UGH. I DIE.
But, we hit it off right away. WHICH SOME PEOPLE WOULD SAY CAN’T HAPPEN THROUGH TEXT. But it can. OH, believe me, it can.
24 hours later we met out at a bar with friends in Boston. ( Shoutout to Lincoln. )
His two front fake teeth ( yes, his actual flipper.. ) was on the ground. I picked it up, handed it back to him, danced with his friends because he was too shy to, and the rest is history.
Now, I’m interviewing him about bumble and relationships.
If you’ve ever felt weird about meeting someone in a strange way, don’t.
Bill taught me that. As long as you’re happy.
OK. Here we go!
+ LET’S JUMP RIGHT IN, SHALL WE? WE MET ON BUMBLE, SOME PEOPLE HAVE THOUGHTS ABOUT THAT. WHAT’RE YOURS?
I have no reservations about meeting on Bumble. In today’s society its pretty normal, I think. And anyone who has a issue with it is just salty. Whether you meet someone on Bumble, Tinder, or out at the bar it shouldn’t really make a difference.
+ DOES IT BOTHER YOU AT ALL TO TELL PEOPLE HOW WE MET?
Not at all. I have no shame whatsoever about it. Sometimes you do get a reaction from people, like you said, but people like that just have to get off their high horse.
+ DID YOU EXPECT TO MEET SOMEONE ON BUMBLE OR WAS IT JUST FOR FUN?
I was definitely at a place where I wanted a girlfriend. I’m not sure I would say I was using Bumble to find that but I was also aware of that possibiility.
+ SO YOU’RE ON BOARD WITH BUMBLE OR OTHER APPS THEY HAVE OUT THERE?
100% – everyone should use them because you really can find an amazing person on them. Just have some tempered expectations going into it and know not everyone will be on it for the same reason.
+ CAN YOU GIVE A LITTLE EXPLANATION ON HOW YOUR TEETH GOT KNOCKED OUT.. PEOPLE WONDER WHAT’S GOING ON WITH THAT ( LOL ).
Haha yes! I used to play professional hockey and got my front 2 teeth knocked out at the end of practice one day. I was kind of rattled at first but now its sort of like a badge of honor. And it helped you notice me, so I should be thankful.
+ OKAY COOL, LET’S GET DEEPER INTO THE QUESTIONS. DID OR DOES IT BOTHER YOU AT ALL THAT I’VE DATED HOCKEY PLAYERS IN THE PAST?
Not one bit – I could never judge anyone about that. Your past is your past – it helped shape you into the person you are but I can’t be bothered by stuff that happened when we didn’t even know each other existed.
+ HOW ABOUT SEX ON THE FIRST DATE.. THOUGHTS?
Well, I think you already know my thoughts on that (WINK WINK). We were both totally on the same page and had a good grasp on each other so it was totally natural. I say go for it!
+ & I HAVE TO ASK.. LAST QUESTION. WHAT ABOUT GIRLS TRYING TO MATCH THEIR UNDERWEAR AND BRAS.. DO YOU EVEN NOTICE? ( I DID THIS WHEN WE MET.. )
Ugh. Kind of shocked that’s a thing. Stop wasting your time ladies.
Okay ladies ( or gents! ) let me know what you think – I’d love to hear your thoughts!
I also love digging into other people’s minds by doing q&a’s, it really keeps the tips and tricks new and hot.
( Did you catch the girl behind reclaiming yesterday? She’s SO real – so many good food tips! )
& BA is super honest and open about things which I adore. I learn SO much from him.
He has this really great view on life and everything it includes.
Maybe I’ll have him do more for you guys. His life advice is just on point.
BUT keep me posted on what you think, of course!
happy sunday baby babes, xx